Masculinity and Being Nice: Perfect Combo

Masculinity and Being Nice: Perfect Combo Jasbina Ahluwalia For both men and women, it comes down to having an empowering mindset or attitude. You want to be able to identify the problem solver as someone who is going to figure it out versus the complainer who is powerless. They are either pointing a finger at others or overgeneralizing. It starts with the mindset and attitude. In your book for men, you mention what

Kinds of Men: Solvers vs Complainers

Kinds of Men: Solvers vs Complainers Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online: Things like making changes to your life and how you spend your time play into that. You’re hoping for the best but also keeping a perspective. That chapter definitely helps in parsing that out. Let’s shift gears and turn to our male listeners. In Changing Your

Dating Mistake: Hearing Wedding Bells Soon

Dating Mistake: Hearing Wedding Bells Soon Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online: The concrete examples were helpful. The next one is mistake number nine. It is, you plan your wedding after your first date. I think this one is relatively commonplace. Tell us about that. _____   Dr. Christie Hartman When a woman is planning her wedding after the first date,

Dating Mistake: Weak Standards

Dating Mistake: Weak Standards Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online: Let’s talk about mistake number four. This is another one that I found particularly compelling. That is, you have weak standards. Christie, I found your distinction and discussion between being picky and discriminating particularly insightful. Can you share with our listeners about the weak standards

Dating Mistake: Attitude of Failure

Dating Mistake: Attitude of Failure Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online: All three books definitely have some unique insights. We’re going to dive into them one by one. We’re going to start with It’s Not Him, It’s You. In the book, you identify what you term the top ten mistakes that women make in the

Questioning Abnormal Behavior in Relationships

Questioning Abnormal Behavior in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? That’s excellent. Is there any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with? _____   Dan Crum There is a concept that we didn’t talk about called “WIN.” It stands for What Is Normal? If you want to have an immediate take-away to know if someone is lying to you, this is it.

[VIDEO] Intersections Match by Jasbina – Process

[VIDEO] Intersections Match by Jasbina - Process Hi - Welcome :-). My name is Jasbina Ahluwalia - I am the Founder of Intersections Match, the Only National Matchmaking & Dating Coaching firm for (Indian) South Asian Singles Nationwide. I'm an Attorney turned entrepreneur, radio show host, matchmaker & dating coach. Our services include: Personalized matchmaking Dating & Relationship coaching Online dating strategy & support The service provided by Intersections is different from online

Defining The First Impression

Defining The First Impression Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? There are several types of verbal and non-verbal deception that you lay out within the book. You mentioned the term “getting real.” I think this is so fundamental to the learnings in your book. Spend a couple of moments sharing with our listeners where that fits into this whole thing. _____   Dan Crum I have an entire

Disguising the Truth in Relationships

The Disguising the Truth in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? Your book identifies 14 types of verbal deception. Please share a couple of them with our listeners that you find to be most common. _____   Dan Crum The Disguising the Truth in Relationships: The Missing Answer We mentioned the guilt twists. I mentioned another one that I call the missing answer. One of the most common

Lying and Physical Behavior: The Connection

Lying and Physical Behavior: The Connection Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? I think that’s very interesting. Like you said, the timing is very important. You can’t take things in the book, attempt to apply them and notice things. You have to pay attention to the sequence of events, the interaction and the timing of everything. Your book identifies the two biggest signs of deception. Tell us about