Jasbina Ahluwalia | Founder of Intersections Match
Jasbina Ahluwalia is an Indian-American matchmaker, certified science-based relationship coach, and founder of Intersections Match, a personalized matchmaking and relationship advisory firm for accomplished singles seeking meaningful long-term partnership.
Since founding Intersections Match in 2007, Jasbina has guided physicians, entrepreneurs, executives, attorneys, engineers, academics, and other accomplished professionals through the deeply personal process of finding a life partner with greater intentionality, clarity, and discernment.
A former practicing attorney turned matchmaker and relationship coach, Jasbina is known for combining strategic insight with emotionally intelligent guidance tailored to the realities many high-achieving professionals face in modern dating and relationships.
Intersections Match specializes in working with South Asian professionals seeking intentional long-term partnership, while also working with clients from diverse backgrounds who value mutually-fulfilling relationships.
Her clients are often accomplished professionals who have invested deeply in building meaningful careers and fulfilling lives, and who now seek a more intentional, thoughtful, and personalized approach to partnership than traditional matchmaking or dating apps typically provide.
Former Practicing Attorney
University of Michigan Law School
Certified Science-Based Relationship Coach
Featured in The New York Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, among others
Speaker at Harvard Business School, Wharton, Columbia & Northwestern, AAPI and SABA
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A More Intentional Approach to Partnership
Many accomplished singles have invested deeply in building meaningful careers, strong communities, and fulfilling lives — yet still find modern dating emotionally exhausting, misaligned, or increasingly difficult to navigate intentionally.
Clients seek Jasbina’s support for a variety of reasons, including:
- Dating fatigue
- Inconsistent app experiences
- Relationship patterns that no longer feel aligned
- Limited access to relationship-oriented peers
- Difficulty balancing demanding careers with intentional partnership search
- Uncertainty around how to move forward effectively
- A desire for a more thoughtful and personalized approach to partnership
Her approach combines personalized matchmaking, strategic guidance, coaching support, and curated introductions designed specifically for accomplished singles seeking meaningful long-term partnership.
Rather than taking a high-volume or transactional approach, Intersections Match focuses on thoughtful alignment, emotional intelligence, shared values, communication dynamics, lifestyle compatibility, and long-term partnership potential.
Client Reflections
Intersections has changed my life.
There was a woman I wanted to meet, who I thought was out of my reach i.e. Intelligent, beautiful and sweet. Jasbina was able to locate her – arrange an introduction – and advise me on how to get to know her… the rest is history as they say!
~ Entrepreneur, Chicago
Despite being in a field that often gives counseling to others on maintaining their relationships, I actually hadno idea about how to manage my own.
This does sound like the plot to a terrible ABCD romantic comedy but it’s actually been the case. I was nervous about putting myself out there due to my conservative values but Jasbina was remarkably insightful and helped me understand myself as an individual who would navigate a relationship with another individual for a meaningful and lasting connection.
Her incredible coaching taught me about standards I should keep and compromises I should make in order to find and sustain a relationship that makes me feel truly wonderful.
I have felt more confident about navigating this process with her guidance and am now successfully moving forward with my ideal man.
CLIENT UPDATE …
Thank you for your support in this process, I’m truly a happily married woman who is comfortable in new relationships with family, friends, in-laws, and my partner.
~ Physician, Houston
I have been feeling down about dating for a good amount of time. Just the mere thought of going on a date was a huge turn off; I felt like the whole thing was a complete waste of time.
One conversation with Jasbina turned all that around and I felt there was reason to have faith and trust in the whole process. Her team supported me on my journey to re-invigorate my wardrobe with the style I already felt comfortable in.
I worked on my own for several years to find my voice in my various online dating profiles, feeling like I had 99% of my profile set but feeling like there was a nagging 1% missing. With Jasbina and her team, my online profile FINALLY feels like the most authentic expression of myself. The result: I have had some of the best connections with my matches, EVER.
I used to believe I did well on my own, however with Jasbina on my side – she made me better. She is doing the most amazing working at injecting some humanity and dignity into dating. It is sorely needed. I am glad she is out here doing this work.
~Engineer, Silicon Valley
When I first started working with Jasbina I had practically no dating experience. I had lived my life up until that point thinking that finding a life partner is something that would not take any effort – that it is something that would just happen. However, with the approach of my 30th birthday, I was starting to feel the pressure – from my family and from myself. I decided that I would start dating with the hope of eventually finding a life partner, and that is when I heard about Intersections Match, and I decided to give the initial consultation a try.
In my initial consultation with Jasbina I found her questions to be thorough and detailed, leading me to think about myself in ways I had not thought of before. I was impressed by the depth of our discussion, and I was left with a sense that Jasbina was going to take the time to truly understand me and what I was looking for. This feeling of being understood is what gave me the confidence I needed to move forward and work with Jasbina.
During the period of introductions, online dating, and ‘getting myself out there’, my monthly dating coaching calls with Jasbina kept me sane. I would often feel stressed after discussing my dating life with my parents, friends, and family. However, discussions with Jasbinaalways left me with a strong feeling and positive outlook. Jasbina created an environment where I felt safe and comfortable discussing anything, and her advice was always extremely helpful.
After a year of working with Jasbina, she introduced me to the man who is now my husband. Working with Jasbina was special from start to end. I learned so much about myself through my interactions with Jasbina and throughout the whole dating process. Jasbina’s advice and support kept me strong. She was always there for me, no matter how minor the question. And I felt her passion for what she does in every interaction with her.
My husband makes me so immensely happy… Each day I am so grateful to have him in my life...
~Project Developer, Florida
Our discussions, including the initial assessment really helped me focus on the values and traits I was seeking in a partner.
Talking through those with Jasbina, including prioritizing them helped clarify in my own mind what is important to me.
So when I met the right person, all the work I had done up to that point helped me recognize all those qualities and traits that I value in this person.
~ Attorney, DC
Begin with the Reinvent Your Love Life Assessment
The first step is a personalized Assessment designed to better understand your relationship history, goals, challenges, preferences, and vision for partnership.
This conversation also helps determine whether Intersections Match may be the right fit for your needs and goals.
