Dating Mistake: Attitude of Failure

Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online:

All three books definitely have some unique insights. We’re going to dive into them one by one. We’re going to start with It’s Not Him, It’s You. In the book, you identify what you term the top ten mistakes that women make in the early stages of dating. For the benefit of our female listeners, I’d like to discuss three of the ten. Please tell us about mistake number two, which is, your attitude sucks.



Dr. Christie Hartman

That should have been mistake number one. Your attitude in dating is everything. When you have an attitude of, “I hate dating. Dating sucks. Men suck. I don’t trust men,” you go out with an attitude of failure. You set yourself up for failure.

I try to show women in that chapter, no matter what has happened, you need to learn from it and move forward. You need to have a can-do attitude that you will rise above whatever negative things have happened in the past. You will succeed if you keep trying and learning.


Tell Us:

What kind of attitude of failure have you seen in yourself or someone you know? How has that affected the relationship? Leave a comment in the comments section below.


The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Christie Hartman.

The entire interview transcript is at: Christie Hartman Interview – A Man’s Guide to Success with Women

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