Questioning Abnormal Behavior in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? That’s excellent. Is there any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with? _____ Dan Crum There is a concept that we didn’t talk about called “WIN.” It stands for What Is Normal? If you want to have an immediate take-away to know if someone is lying to you, this is it.
The Disguising the Truth in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? Your book identifies 14 types of verbal deception. Please share a couple of them with our listeners that you find to be most common. _____ Dan Crum The Disguising the Truth in Relationships: The Missing Answer We mentioned the guilt twists. I mentioned another one that I call the missing answer. One of the most common
Lying and Physical Behavior: The Connection Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? I think that’s very interesting. Like you said, the timing is very important. You can’t take things in the book, attempt to apply them and notice things. You have to pay attention to the sequence of events, the interaction and the timing of everything. Your book identifies the two biggest signs of deception. Tell us about
Deception: The Timing & Signs Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? I’m happy that you set the context. Your book guides readers to find what you call their “window of focus.” I know that your book goes into great detail. Let’s do a bit of a sampling to give readers some insights so that they can pick up your book and learn more. Share with us what you mean
Finding the Truth in His Lies Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? This book is very interesting. You advise readers not to look for truthful behavior. What do you mean by that, Dan? _____ Dan Crum When someone looks for truthful behavior, they’re going to find it. Here’s why. Truthful behavior is one of the easiest things to fake. If you were to ask people, “What does
Reasons Behind Mens Deception Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? You also lay out the following four reasons why men deceive in the first place. I’ll name them and then I’m going to ask you to explain and give examples of each one. The first reason ispreservation. The second reason is courteous. The third reason is privacy. The fourth is deception. Can you explain each of the four and give our listeners an
Types of Lies Men Tell Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Dan Crum, author of Is He Lying to You? You explain in your book that there are two different types of lies that men tell. One type is deletion and the other is fallacy. Explain the two types to our listeners. _____ Dan Crum Types of Lies Men Tell: Deletion Deletion is when you leave something out. Let’s say that I ask you
Honesty in Online Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. John Cacioppo: That is fascinating and, in some ways, counterintuitive for some people who might think that people hide behind their computer. You’re saying that the level of self-disclosure is higher. _____ Dr. John Cacioppo Honesty in Online Dating Leads to Marriage You raise a very good point. That’s why I wanted to make the point that these are individuals who ended up married. If
Be Honest While Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Christine B. Whelan, author of Why Smart Men Marry Smart Women: It’s good to know that at the outset. The second of the tips that you share is to be honest about your achievements and who you are. You had the example that you just shared. Whatever your profession is, it’s something that you should be proud to share. _____ Dr. Christine Whelan Be Honest
