I need space – What A Guy Really Means

I need space - What A Guy Really Means Dating is no easy feat.  We all have a tree in our backyard that we have stopped to admire, and then proceed to bang our head on after a bad date. I realize it can be very frustrating for you gals to decipher what we guys are saying during the dating process. What does it all mean?  What is the true status of your

9 Ideas To Surprise Her with Something Special

9 Ideas To Surprise Her with Something Special Question My fiancée took the bar exam recently, and has been busy with her job search ever since. What with my lengthy work hours, her studying for the bar and now job search, not to mention our extensive wedding planning (with our families), it seems like we just haven’t been able to spend all that much time together.   No TIME to Find Someone? We

5 Reasons Why You Don’t Have Your Ideal Relationship

5 Reasons Why You Don’t Have Your Ideal Relationship Do you find yourself fighting with your partner often or wondering why you don’t feel satisfied in your relationship? Have  you tried to think of everything possible to help your partner change so that you can have the relationship that you want but you still don’t have it? The answer may not be with your partner but with you. While unhealthy conflict is due

Take Better Care of Yourself So You Can Better Care For Others

Take Better Care of Yourself So You Can Better Care For Others South Asian culture is a collectivistic culture, meaning that individual needs and wants are pushed aside for the benefit of the whole group. Generally, people who are raised in a collectivistic culture are taught that it is best to sacrifice oneself if that means the group as a whole will be happier. Overall, it is emphasized that others are often more

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues – What Do I Do?

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do? Question I’m dating a woman who’s really great, except for the fact that she’s constantly questioning me whenever we spend any time apart. To give you an example, when I go out with friends, she has to know where I’m going, when I’m going to be back, and exactly who else will be there.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can

I Will Call You – What A Guy Really Means

I Will Call You – What A Guy Really Means Dating is no easy feat.  We all have a tree in our backyard that we have stopped to admire, and then proceed to bang our head on after a bad date. I realize it can be very frustrating for you gals to decipher what we guys are saying during the dating process.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   What

I Am Not Looking To Get Married Now – What A Guy Really Means

I Am Not Looking To Get Married Now – What A Guy Really Means Dating is no easy feat.  We all have a tree in our backyard that we have stopped to admire, and then proceed to bang our head on after a bad date. I realize it can be very frustrating for you gals to decipher what we guys are saying during the dating process.   No TIME to Find Someone? We

Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix?

Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix? Question From your experience as a professional dating coach and matchmaker "Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix?" Do you think long-term relationships are really feasible between people with different political views, for example, a Democrat and a Republican? I’m curious: does this issue ever come up when dealing with your clients? Or is it not really on people’s radars? [More from Jasbina] ---> [VIDEO] Intersections

2 Religions in 1 Couple

2 Religions in 1 Couple Kristina Lynn asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: Yes. Thanks for that, Denise. I think that was a really important point. Jasbina, I imagine this question is something that you deal with on a regular basis because of the importance that is placed on family in the Indian culture. We touched on this a little bit but this question will take us into more detail. This gal says, “I’ve been dating

Redefining Romance in Relationships

Redefining Romance in Relationships Denise Levy asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: We have some questions coming in. There is one thing I wanted to go back to. Jasbina, you were talking about defining romance. A lot of times, what we see in today’s society is that romance is taken from movies and the media. We blame Disney for our upsets. They set us up to believe in Prince Charming. I wanted to touch on that