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“I Am Not Looking To Get Married Right Now.”
What it means: This line is pretty straightforward…don’t try to polish this turd into something that it’s not. If your clock is ticking (or your parents and aunties are all breathing down your neck about your heretofore nonexistent shaadi), shift your focus to someone else and don’t waste your time with this guy.
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His comment could mean that he is a terrified little boy, pooping himself with commitment issues, or he could just mean that he wants to take it ‘waaary, waaary’ slow. Either way, the big mistake is to think that he’ll be so overwhelmed by your awesomeness that he’ll change his stripes, and move into marriage mode within a few dates. This makes me think of that great song by Madeline Peyroux, “Don’t Wait Too Long.”
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What to do: Be candid about your intentions. If you want to get married relatively soon and you are not up for a 10-year, “make-up-your-freakin’-mind” boyfriend, tell him. If this scares him, good. Enjoy watching him go from brown to white while asking the waiter for the check. Better to find out now than later.
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Article Contributor: Sanjit Singh is an entrepreneur, speaker and author. He is the author of ‘Are You Indian – A Humorous Guide To Growing Up Indian In America. He is a contributor to the humor blog, Bad Swami. He holds an MBA from UCLA Anderson School of Management.
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