4 Stages of Love

4 Stages of Love Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Pat Love, author of The Truth About Love: Awareness of that is key. There is nothing wrong with someone going through those stages. In fact, it’s to be expected. I think awareness is really important. There was a story in your book that caught my eye. There was a happily married woman who told you that she divorced and remarried her husband four times in

[VIDEO] Is There Love At First Sight – Here’s Why It Could Be Possible

  [VIDEO] Is There Love At First Sight - Here's Why It Could Be Possible The debate continues ... Is love at first sight really a thing? In the video above, SVP of YourTango Experts Melanie Gorman, relationship and communications expert Fiona Fine, author and relationship coach Gregg Michaelsen, matchmaker and dating coach Jasbina Ahluwalia and biological anthropologist Helen Fisher, Ph.D. say that there's still no definitive answer to this romantic mystery. Why? Because many people haven't

Control Timing in Life

Control Timing in Life Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: Yes, it’s that fine-tuning. Listening and seeing how things pan out is important. I really appreciate you sharing your insights with us, Debi. They’ve been really interesting. I’m wondering if you have any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with. _____   Debi Berndt A lot of people talk about timing and fate.

Voice of Wisdom: In You

Voice of Wisdom: In You Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: You can’t short circuit that. In dating coaching, we’re often pushing people outside of their comfort zone. This quote really resonated. You said, “Learning to recognize whether your feelings are truly intuitive nudges or old, worn-out fears is the trickiest part of this process.” Can you share with our listeners what you mean by that? _____   Debi

Discover Relationship Desires

Discover Relationship Desires Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: I found the following words in your book empowering. I’m going to read these words for the benefit of our listeners. “In order to use the law of attraction successfully, you must discover your true inner desire and fulfill that need on your own.” Please tell us about that. _____ Debi Berndt Discover Relationship Desires: Feel Good So many people

[VIDEO] Storybook ROMANCE – 3 Steps To Turn Your Relationship Into One

[VIDEO] Storybook ROMANCE - 3 Steps To Turn Your Relationship Into One Swoon! Every relationship needs romance to thrive, but you don't need to be hopeless romantic in order to instill this into their relationships. Many people, especially men, believe that they aren't the "romantic type" because they don't feel like comfortable making huge romantic gestures and pronouncing their love to the world. But romance is WAY more than that. Need some romance tips? YourTango's Senior VP Melanie Gorman, Divorce Coach Dr.

Reading Energies: Dating

Reading Energies: Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: Yes. That’s very empowering. In your book, you discuss what you term the “law of transfiguration” in the context of dating. Will you please share this concept with our listeners? _____    Debi Berndt Reading Energies: Reading Each Other We’re always unconsciously reading each other all the time. We do this with body language. That’s the simplest way to explain it. We also sync up our

Take Charge in Dating

Take Charge in Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In:  In your book, you pose a compelling question to readers. You say, “What if I told you that you were responsible for creating every dating experience you ever had?” Debbie, can you tell us about that? _____    Debi Berndt It’s a really hard concept. We think, “Relationships are two people.” You go out with someone and they don’t turn out to be very nice,

Subconscious Effect on Dating

Subconscious Effect on Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: It’s a pleasure to have you. As a professional dating coach and matchmaker, I’m fascinated by insights and perspectives regarding relationships. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed reading your book and would love to explore some of the insights that you shared. To begin with, what prompted you to write this book in the first place? _____    Debi Berndt I always get that question. I

[VIDEO] 2 Reasons Why Men Pull Away (And How To Deal)

[VIDEO] 2 Reasons Why Men Pull Away (And How To Deal) The brutal truth ... Many women have this similar experience with the men. The relationship is going incredibly well — it's exciting, and you're loving the time together. Then, seemingly out of the blue, you feel a distance. You're certainly not the one creating it, so it must be your man, right? You'll be surprised to hear that this is actually quite common behavior between