Control Timing in Life

Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: Yes, it’s that fine-tuning. Listening and seeing how things pan out is important.

I really appreciate you sharing your insights with us, Debi. They’ve been really interesting. I’m wondering if you have any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with.



Debi Berndt

A lot of people talk about timing and fate. I guess we’ll find out the truth of all of the laws of life after we die.


Control Timing in Life: You Create Fate

It’s my opinion that we’re creating it ourselves.

If you’ve been waiting and thinking, “I did all this inner work. I did a lot of retraction. I did my vision board,” and you’re waiting for this divine timing to show up and it’s been more than 90 days, then there is something else inside of you that’s blocking it.

It shouldn’t take much longer. If you feel like you’ve done some personal growth work on yourself and you feel like you’re ready and they’re not showing up, it’s not that it takes a year for someone to show up for you.


Control Timing in Life: 30 Day Limit

In my opinion, most of the time, it shows up within 30 days of when you shift. That is adjusting what you’re doing and thinking.

One of the most important things that I talk about in my book is hypnosis and the idea of going into an altered state, which is a trance or meditative state.


Control Timing in Life: Subconscious Mind

You change that dialogue of the subconscious mind. It starts the whole process for you or ends it before it has started.

It’s those thoughts that you have every day that dictate everything. They dictate how you feel. They dictate what you do.

If you can start with shifting those, you can really make profound changes.


Control Timing in Life: Examples

I had a woman who I did a hypnosis group exercise with at a dating event. She met her man an hour later.

I had another client who met her man 30 days later. It can happen really quickly.

What we’re putting out is what we’re getting back. Look at what you’re putting out and what you’re getting back.

Then you ask, “I’m putting that out. How can I change what I’m putting out so that I can get what I want?”


Tell Us:

Have you been able to control timing in your life and been fruitful? Share your stories with us in the comments section below.


The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Debi Berndt

The entire interview transcript is at: Debi Berndt Interview – Guide To Allow True Love Into Your Life

Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show

Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Let Love In

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