Learn Local Dating Customs

Learn Local Dating Customs Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Lorii Abela, author of Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life: On one hand, you’re dealing with the basics for the ex-pat. Then, how is the ex-pat received? Are people looking at the ex-pat and making assumptions on their values based on the fact that they are an ex-pat? This may or may not be true. We all walk around with these ideas of what it

Ex-Patriate Dating Concerns

Ex-Patriate Dating Concerns Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Lorii Abela, author of Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life: I think those are great points. I agree in terms of the picture. Physical attraction certainly opens the doors. There is no question about that. But if there is nothing under the hood there, guys want more than that. It’s the same with women. Substance is very important to commitment-minded guys. I agree with what you

Overcoming Limitation: 3 Steps

Overcoming Limitation: 3 Steps Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): Your book discusses at greater length how each of these four alpha bitch behaviors are different in how they are manifested but are triggered by the core beliefs of lack and insufficiency. You also mention three steps for releasing lack and limitation. Would you share those with

Drama Queen Behavior

Drama Queen Behavior Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): It’s simple but really impactful. The fourth common alpha behavior is the “disruptive alpha.” In the context of romantic relationships, how do you see the disruptive alpha playing out? _____ Rebecca Grado Disruptive Alpha: Drama Queen When you think of the disruptive alpha, think of the drama queen. 

Competitive Behavior is Unhealthy

Competitive Behavior is Unhealthy Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): Even when that’s not the case, no one dies. Everything is okay even if it’s different. The book discusses at length four different common alpha behaviors. The third one that you mention is a “competitive alpha.” In the context of relationships, how do you see that playing

Controlling Behavior in Relationships

Controlling Behavior in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): The “forceful alpha” was the first one. The second of the four common alpha behaviors you mention is the “controlling alpha.” In the context of relationships, will you explain to our readers what that might be? _____ Rebecca Grado I think this is the one area that

Being Empowered: Make the Change

Being Empowered: Make the Change Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): Those are some wonderful analogies. I found the words you used in the book very compelling. You make an insightful distinction between wielding force on the one hand and then embodying power. I think you’ve already spoken to this. Tell us about that distinction. Like you

Forceful Alpha Bitch: The Behavior

Forceful Alpha Bitch: The Behavior Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): I love the idea of co-creation and the empowering thought behind that. Your book discusses four common alpha bitch behaviors and how each of these behaviors is actually triggered by the core beliefs of lack and insufficiency, which in turn, send us spiraling into panic and

Law of Attraction: How It Works

Law of Attraction: How It Works Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Rebecca Grado, co-author of Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to Be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!): Will you explain to our listeners the concept of the manifestation formula with respect to the interrelationship among beliefs, thoughts, feelings, energy and outcome? That’s a great place to start to understand the insights that you share. Tell us about that. _____ Rebecca Grado Most