Women Push in Relationships

Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Lorii Abela, author of Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life: You have a whole chapter of juicy secrets to dating for ex-pats. You have five secrets.

Would you share the fifth one with our listeners? That is to let things happen.

You mentioned before how women who are ex-pats might be seeing a guy. He thinks they’re friends and she thinks he’s her boyfriend. It’s an interesting segue into the “let things happen” secret. Can you tell our listeners about that?



Lorii Abela

Women Push in Relationships Without Realizing

Especially with women, they’re always thinking, “Maybe I have to do something.” They’re so scared.


Women Push in Relationships and Scare Men

Sometimes they push so hard that men get scared.

I had someone that I talked to. She said, “I want to move forward. I really like you.” The funny thing is that they’re still online dating. They haven’t met each other.

I said it was the biggest no-no. They were just communicating on Skype.

I thought, “Oh my God. She’s moving so fast.” Of course, the local will think, “She’s so pushy. We haven’t even met.”

That’s the interesting part about online dating. Let’s say that you haven’t met yet. There’s a difference between talking and actually meeting.

When you’re talking to someone through a computer screen, there is a different component. They are hidden inside the computer. It’s different.


Women Push in Relationships and Turn Men Away

What happened with that girl is that the guy backed off. She never saw the guy. I feel sorry. She didn’t tell me.


Women Push in Relationships, Just Go With the Flow

Just go with the flow. The person who is for you will like you no matter what. You don’t even have to do something.

Sometimes you have to just sit, relax and not think about it. The more that we use our thinking process, the more worried we become.

Just sit back, relax and chill. Sometimes when you are relaxed, happy and enjoying everything, that’s the time that a person shows up. It’s unbelievable how things work.


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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Lorii Abela

The entire interview transcript is at: Lorii Abela Interview – Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life

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