About Jasbina Ahluwalia

The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia. As a former practicing lawyer who also holds a graduate degree in philosophy, Jasbina can relate first-hand to the demands and challenges facing her accomplished clients.

Evolution of Online Dating

Evolution of Online Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Thank you for sharing that. Julie, you wrote in your book, “My position as a cyber-dating expert encompassed over 250 dates in my 30s, 40s and 50s.” Tell us about any differences you found dating online in your 30s versus your 40s. _____   Julie Spira Evolution of Online Dating: Internet Boom (5:58): I think the biggest difference that I

Prepare for Online Dating: Tips

Prepare for Online Dating: Personal Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: As a professional matchmaker and dating coach who assists clients with both their offline and online dating, I’m fascinated by insights and perspectives regarding relationships and dating. I’ve enjoyed reading both of your books and would love to explore some of the insights you share. Dr. Koppel, let’s start here. I found a quote in your book particularly

Rebecca Grado Interview – How to be Fierce and Feminine and Get Everything You Want!

Rebecca Grado Interview - How to be Fierce and Feminine and Get Everything You Want! “Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!)” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Rebecca Grado A few topics Rebecca Grado address in this interview are: (1:49)     Married Yet Unfulfilled: Alpha Bitch                        (3:23)    Law of Attraction: How It Works (6:52)  

Steve Santagati Interview – A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate

Steve Santagati Interview - A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate “A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Steve Santagati   Steve Santagati is the NY Times bestselling Author of The Manual: A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate and What Women Can Do to Come Out on Top. He embodies a rare combination of television savvy and

Marriage Does Not Change Behavior

Marriage Does Not Change Behavior Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Bhuvansehwari Bhagat: It’s about who you are and what you’re looking for in a marriage. Based on your clinical experience, what recommendation would you make to single Indian women in choosing their life partners? Are there any particular suggestions you might make to women? _____   Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat You are asking about suggestions for single South Asian women?   Jasbina Ahluwalia Yes, women seeking their

Are You Ready for Marriage?

Are You Ready for Marriage? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat: That’s interesting. Based on your experience as a marriage counselor, with respect to how to assess compatibility before making the decision to enter into marriage, do you have any insights into that? _____   Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat I tell people, when you think of getting married, answer certain questions. Why do you want to get married? Often, people have a very typical idea of

Providing for Parents Effects Marriage

Providing for Parents Effects Marriage Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat: That’s interesting. In those couples that call you 5 to 15 years into their marriage, what are their issues? _____   Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat Providing for Parents Effects Marriage: Asking Why The biggest issue is that they all have parents living in India or in a South continent. The fact that there is a level of giving back causes a huge issue in the

Communicating in Arranged Marriages

Communicating in Arranged Marriages Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat: Do you tend to see different issues in couples with an “arranged” marriage versus a “love” marriage? Have you seen patterns or differences with your clients who have gone one way or the other? _____   Bhuvaneshwari Bhagat Communicating in Arranged Marriages Has Family Baggage What’s sad is they’re not very different. The one thing that is distinctly different is the amount of baggage

Dr. Ty Tashiro Interview – What Really Matters in the Quest for Enduring Love

Ty Tashiro Interview - What Really Matters in the Quest for Enduring Love “The Science of Happily Ever After:  What Really Matters in the Quest for Enduring Love” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Ty Tashiro A few topics Ty Tashiro addresses in this interview are: (3:17)     Marriage Satisfaction Decline (5:13)     Marriage is Twice as Long (7:36)    Dating Three Wishes (11:07)   Importance of Looks (14:34)  Bad Boy Versus Nice Guy (16:40)  Personality Traits:

Nancy Slotnick Interview – Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less

Nancy Slotnick Interview - Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less “Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Nancy Slotnick A few topics Nancy Slotnick addresses in this interview are: (3:12)     Available Ladies: Drop Hints (4:36)     Actively Find a Partner (6:12)     Dating A Part-Time Job? (8:17)     Dating Communication Rules (10:19)   Lower Online Dating Expectations (13:37)   Don’t Be a Needy Girlfriend! (15:18)   Controlling of Communication