About Jasbina Ahluwalia

The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia. As a former practicing lawyer who also holds a graduate degree in philosophy, Jasbina can relate first-hand to the demands and challenges facing her accomplished clients.

Who Should Initiate Conversation Online?

Who Should Initiate Conversation Online? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Dr. Koppel, you wrote, “I knew instinctively that I couldn’t sit back and wait for men to contact me. My instincts were correct. Most men, especially those of a certain age, don’t need to contact women. They can just sit back and wait for the women to contact them. As a rule, I found that the men who did

Writing Online Dating Profiles: Tips

Writing Online Dating Profiles: Expert Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Julie, tell me about what you’ve found in your experience. I know that your experience is personal as well as expert. What do you think about describing what you’re looking for in a partner and in your life as opposed to describing who you think you are in your profile? Is that something you’ve run across? _____ Julie

Lorii Abela Interview – Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life

Lorii Abela Interview - Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life “Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Lorii Abela A few topics Lorii Abela Address in this interview are: (3:28)     Bring Personality: Dating Tip             (5:39)     Ex-Patriate Dating Concerns (9:08)    Learn Local Dating Customs (13:35)   Dating Ex-Patriates: Tips (15:59)   Women Push in Relationships (19:12)    Happiness Attracts The

Online Dating Profile: Be Yourself

Online Dating Profile: Describe Yourself Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Dr. Koppel, in terms of writing an online profile, you say, “Don’t say it when you can show it.” Can you give us some examples? _____   Dr. Dale Koppel Online Dating Profile: Use Humor Yes, I can. I like to use the example where everyone says they have a sense of humor. I remember all of the times

Perfect Partner Has Same Values

Perfect Partner Has Same Values Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Dr. Koppel, you found your Mr. Right online, as you had mentioned. You say in your book, “My list proved to be a work in progress. The more men I met, the more deal-breakers I added to it. Still, in the end, I realized that my list had functioned only as a framework, a crutch that I could and

Online Dating Sites: Who’s The Best?

Online Dating Sites: Who’s The Best? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: That’s amazing. Julie, the people that we at Intersections Match work with tend to be successful, educated, family-oriented and fit men and women. Are there any particular online sites that you tend to recommend for 30 or 40-somethings who meet this demographic? _____ Julie Spira Online Dating Sites: eHarmony One of the most popular sites that is geared

Evolution of Online Dating

Evolution of Online Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: Thank you for sharing that. Julie, you wrote in your book, “My position as a cyber-dating expert encompassed over 250 dates in my 30s, 40s and 50s.” Tell us about any differences you found dating online in your 30s versus your 40s. _____   Julie Spira Evolution of Online Dating: Internet Boom (5:58): I think the biggest difference that I

Prepare for Online Dating: Tips

Prepare for Online Dating: Personal Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Julie Spira and Dr. Dale Koppel: As a professional matchmaker and dating coach who assists clients with both their offline and online dating, I’m fascinated by insights and perspectives regarding relationships and dating. I’ve enjoyed reading both of your books and would love to explore some of the insights you share. Dr. Koppel, let’s start here. I found a quote in your book particularly

Rebecca Grado Interview – How to be Fierce and Feminine and Get Everything You Want!

Rebecca Grado Interview - How to be Fierce and Feminine and Get Everything You Want! “Taming Your Alpha Bitch: How to be Fierce and Feminine (and Get Everything You Want!)” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Rebecca Grado A few topics Rebecca Grado address in this interview are: (1:49)     Married Yet Unfulfilled: Alpha Bitch                        (3:23)    Law of Attraction: How It Works (6:52)

Steve Santagati Interview – A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate

Steve Santagati Interview - A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate “A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Steve Santagati Jasbina speaks with acclaimed author Steve Santagati  about themes from her book A True Bad Boy Explains How Men Think, Date and Mate. Learn more about her work at http://www.badboysfinishfirst.com/about. Steve Santagati is the NY Times bestselling Author of The Manual: