unpredictable attraction

Unpredictable Attraction: Embrace It Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Lori Gottlieb – Author of the book Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr. Good Enough: That’s interesting. During the personal consultations that we conduct as part of our process, we discuss essential needs or must-haves on the one hand and deal-breakers on the other. I typically find it meaningful to probe the underlying “why” behind each must-have and deal-breaker. Perhaps for that reason, the