Everyone Loves the Same Way

Everyone Loves the Same Way Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Helen Fisher: That message tells you to give that date another shot, unless there are red flags. You mentioned the survey data. This is not based on the Match.com subscribers but the public at large. Was there anything from the most recent survey that surprised you? _____   Dr. Helen Fisher There are many things but there are two that I really like.  

Attraction Grows With Time

Attraction Grows With Time Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Helen Fisher: Have you seen studies with respect to whether attraction can grow over time? You have that first meeting with someone. It’s there or it’s not there. Is that something that can grow? _____   Dr. Helen Fisher It not only can grow, but it does grow. The data we have is elegant. Attraction Grows With Time: Singles In America With Match, I do

Geetha Ravindra Interview – Shaadi Remix – Transforming the Traditional Indian Marriage

Geetha Ravindra Interview - Shaadi Remix - Transforming the Traditional Indian Marriage “Shaadi Remix - Transforming the Traditional Indian Marriage” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Geetha Ravindra   Geetha Ravindra is an attorney and mediator with over twenty years of experience in the field of Alternative Dispute Resolution. She is currently the mediator for the International Monetary Fund. Geetha served as Director of the Department of Dispute Resolution Services at the Supreme Court of Virginia

Biology of Attraction

Biology of Attraction Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Helen Fisher: From a biological perspective, why do you think we fall in love with one person rather than another? _____   Dr. Helen Fisher Biology of Attraction: Psychological Perspective We know from a psychological perspective that you tend to fall in love with someone: from the same socioeconomic background general level of intelligence good looks religious and social values   Your childhood certainly plays a

[VIDEO] Love At First Sight – Is It Possible?

  [VIDEO] Love At First Sight - Is It Possible? Let's be honest: is love at first sight really possible? Can you instantly know he's "the one"? YourTango Experts Ellen Whitehurst, Maya Ezratti, Jasbina Ahluwalia and Abby Rodman speak with YourTango Senior VP of Experts, Melanie Gorman about the phenemonen of instantaneous love, perpetuated by shows like The Bachelor. The reality competition series may be unrealistic for the rest

Men Are More Romantic

Men Are More Romantic Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Helen Fisher: It’s great to have you. As an anthropologist and human behavior researcher, what do you believe are a few of the greatest gender differences in the way men and women approach finding life partners? _____    Dr. Helen Fisher I think that what will surprise people is that men fall in love more often. Men fall in love much faster.   Men Are

Communication is Key: Relationships

One of the most common deal breakers that should be non-negotiable is communication. As Cija Black, author of 'Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating,' points out, communication is critical for the success of any relationship. Without it, flexibility and growth become impossible. Black shares her personal story of how the lack of communication in her first marriage was a deal breaker that led her to prioritize this

Ready to Date?

While having high standards is commendable, it's also important to maintain a balance. Consider what imperfections you can tolerate in a partner, keeping in mind your own fallibilities. This realistic perspective will help you identify deal breakers that are essential versus those that might be more flexible. Remember, no one is perfect, and understanding this can lead to more meaningful connections. Ready to Date? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black,

Take Charge of Love Life

Finding the right balance between holding on to your deal breakers and remaining open to potential matches is a journey of self-awareness and introspection. By understanding the importance of your deal breakers, taking charge of your love life, and balancing your standards with openness, you can navigate the complexities of relationships with confidence. Remember, the right partner is out there, and by mastering your deal breakers, you're one step closer to

Doubting Happiness In a Relationship

Doubting Happiness In a Relationship Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Abby Rodman, author of Should You Marry Him? A No-Nonsense, Therapist-Tested Guide to Not Screwing Up the Biggest Decision of Your Life how people can sense true happiness in love relationships: You have to objectively analyze. You have to step back. You mentioned before that well-worn pair of slippers. It may not actually be serving you even if it seems comfortable at the time.