About Jasbina Ahluwalia

The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia. As a former practicing lawyer who also holds a graduate degree in philosophy, Jasbina can relate first-hand to the demands and challenges facing her accomplished clients.

My Boyfriend Is Considering a Major Change: 5 Tips for Keeping It Together

My Boyfriend Is Considering a Major Change : 5 Tips for Keeping It Together Question: I love my boyfriend of 4 years but he’s considering career change (he’s 22) and it’s something I don’t agree with. I don’t think my parents really like that he’s moving away from the medical field and into agriculture. Should I be worried that his decision will tear us apart? I think he wants to go to a

Are Relationship Stages for Men and Women Different?

Are Relationship Stages for Men and Women Different? Are Relationship Stages for Men and Women Different? We all know that men and women tend to approach relationships differently. While this may not be true for all men and all women, it's often true for most. If you're interested in building a successful relationship, you may want to consider the perspective of your partners.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!  

How do you know when you’ve met the right one?

How do you know when you’ve met the right one? QUESTION How do you know when you’ve met the right one? I’ve been dating a guy for over a year now, and we’re thinking about taking it to the next level: marriage. [More from Jasbina] ---> [VIDEO] Intersections Match by Jasbina - From The Founder ---> [VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?   No TIME to Find

Is Past Dating Experience Relevant?

Is Past Dating Experience Relevant? QUESTION Is his past dating experience relevant - should we discuss it? I've been dating a guy (Indian American like me) for a couple of months. I wonder - is his past dating experience relevant? Is that the best way to get a sense of his mindset at this early stage in our relationship.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   _____ [More from Jasbina]

Easily Make Friends But Not A Relationship – What Do I Do?

Easily Make Friends But Not A Relationship – What Do I Do? QUESTION I am 34 and have been single for way too long. I would love to meet someone, but it seems that every time I do, the person doesn’t like me or ends up being unavailable. I usually have an easy time making friends, so of course, when I am not romantically interested in someone, that person ends up liking me.

Don’t See Romantic Potential…But Is It OK to Continue?

Don't See Romantic Potential...Is It OK to Continue? QUESTION I met a guy last year online.  While we seemed to have little in common, he expressed interest and I responded.  After communicating via email and phone for a couple weeks, we met in-person.  While meeting didn't change my initial impression regarding having little in common, it was an enjoyable evening and I did feel attracted to him. During the next several months, we

When Will Love Happen – Should I Be Proactive?

When Will Love Happen – Should I Be Proactive? QUESTION I’m fortunate to have a great family, good friends, and a successful career. I feel like I’m in a good place, except that I’m missing a partner with whom I can share my life. When will love happen? While my parents would like me to be proactive in searching for a mate, I hear from others that I’ll eventually meet my special someone.

My Spouse Wants A Divorce, But Gives No Reason – Should I Hold On?

My Spouse Wants A Divorce, But Gives No Reason - Should I Hold On? QUESTION I’ve been married for almost seven years. My husband was born in India and came to the United States when he was 18 years old. I was born here. The two of us met while in college, fell in love and then married. We don’t have kids. Now my husband wants a divorce. When I ask him for

Should I Leave Meeting The Special Someone to Serendipity?

Should I Leave Meeting The Special Someone to Serendipity? QUESTION I'm an attractive and successful single woman who enjoys a fulfilling life but am just missing that special guy to share my life.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   Over the years, I've pretty much gone about my life with the belief that when I least expect it, I'll meet my special guy. This hasn't quite worked yet -

He Does Not Want Kids, I Do – What Should I Do?

He Does Not Want Kids, I Do – What Should I Do? QUESTION I’m in a serious relationship with a guy I really love. I’m wondering what to do since he does not want to have kids and I do. [More from Jasbina] ---> [VIDEO] Intersections Match by Jasbina - From The Founder   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   ---> [VIDEO] Men Think I’m Controlling. How Do I Stop?