About Jasbina Ahluwalia

The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia. As a former practicing lawyer who also holds a graduate degree in philosophy, Jasbina can relate first-hand to the demands and challenges facing her accomplished clients.

Diversity in Politics: Its Rise

Diversity in Politics: Its Rise Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Toby Chaudhuri, Co-Founder and CSO of SocialxDesign: I’m fascinated that you were in the Clinton White House. Do you have any interesting stories or anecdotes that you can share from your experiences with the Gore campaign or while in the Clinton White House? Is there anything that comes to mind that really left an impression on you? _____   Toby Chaudhuri Diversity in Politics: The

Choosing the Right Mate: Tips

Choosing the Right Mate: Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: That’s excellent. That’s a very empowering thought. We do have men and women listening to this. I’d love for you to share with us your tips for choosing the right mate. I know you have male and female clients as well as couples. Feel free to

Love Yourself For Better Relationship

Love Yourself For Better Relationship Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: There is another quote that follows on the heels of this. I’ll read it and then have you share with the audience. “I couldn’t help but notice that, as my relationship with myself grew kinder and more loving, so too did the men who showed up

Empowered Women in Relationships

Empowered Women in Relationships Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: Whenever you say that about responsibility, what I hear is that women are empowered. They can do something about this. That’s where I love to go with relationships. It’s a sense of empowerment. Empowered Women in Relationships: Potential to Change That means that there is something that

Setting Boundaries With His Mom

Setting Boundaries With His Mom Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: It sounds like the guy would have to be open to establishing those boundaries. _____ Dr. Catherine Cardinal That’s right. As the woman, if you’re feeling this about your partner and his mom, you have to make very clear requests of him. Remember, he’s emotionally involved

Over-Involved Mother-In-Law

Over-Involved Mother-In-Law Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: Your stories have been great. Do you have any stories from your clinical experience about this that you can share with our audience to really bring the point home? _____ Dr. Catherine Cardinal Yes. I had a couple come in for some stress and anger management. I do stress

Dating a Mama’s Boy

Dating a Mama’s Boy Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: The final of the three prototypes that I’d like to discuss tonight is one that you characterize as, “He’s a young thing and cannot leave his mother.” Tell us about that one. _____   Dr. Catherine Cardinal Dating a Mama’s Boy: Emotional Attachment This is the guy

Dating The Kid In A Candy Store Type

Dating The Kid In A Candy Store Type Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: What are some questions to ask yourself when you find yourself in a relationship with someone you suspect may be the Kid in the Candy Store? _____ Dr. Catherine Cardinal Dating The Kid In A Candy Store: Attention Span If you are aware

Kid in a Candy Store: Identify Him

Kid in a Candy Store: Identify Him Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: That’s wonderful. I hope that everyone got that one down. Let’s move on to the second of the three prototypes that I selected. Dr. Cardinal characterizes this one as the Kid in a Candy Store. Dr. Cardinal, please tell us about him. _____  

Lust or Love: How to Tell

Lust or Love: How to Tell Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Catherine Cardinal, author of, Men to Run From: So You Can Find the Right One to Run to: Give him the time to show you that he is able to be consistent over time. He needs to be comfortable with you expressing your feelings towards him as well. _____ Dr. Catherine Cardinal Yes. I’d like to offer a million-dollar piece of advice that