About Jasbina Ahluwalia

The uniqueness of Intersections Match comes from the life experiences of its Founder, Jasbina Ahluwalia. As a former practicing lawyer who also holds a graduate degree in philosophy, Jasbina can relate first-hand to the demands and challenges facing her accomplished clients.

[VIDEO] Are Some Women Really Just Unlucky In Love & Relationships?

YourTango Experts, Jasbina Ahluwalia, Intersections Match Founder, Abby Rodman, Maya Ezratti, Ellen Whitehurst and Melanie Gorman get to the bottom of an age-old quandry: [VIDEO] Are Some Women Really Just Unlucky In Love & Relationships? They discuss important issues when it comes to the search for a meaningful relationship, like the power of networking and putting your best foot forward. Melanie Gorman (00:17):  Lots of people say that they feel unlucky in love

[VIDEO] Help! I’m Almost 40 And Still Single!

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: [VIDEO] I’m almost 40 and still single. What’s wrong with me? Why can’t I find a good man to settle down with?      Jasbina Ahluwalia Let me reassure you--you are most definitely not the only one finding yourself in  this situation.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   Unfortunately, there is in fact a disparity in guys' favor in the numbers of single

[VIDEO] Is It Bad To Have A List Of Must-Haves In Men?

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: [VIDEO] Is It Bad To Have A List Of Must-Haves In Men? I know that lots of people caution against this, but I have a list of what I want in a man. Is this really a bad thing?   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, I can tell you that this is a very common question. Gaining

[VIDEO] Men Think I’m Controlling. How Do I Stop?

[VIDEO] Jasbina gives 3 tips on how to stay empowered, while not coming off as too controlling. In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I’m often criticized by men I date because I come across too controlling.  Is there a way to maintain my integrity as a powerful woman without being perceived as controlling?    Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up frequently.

[VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: In the past when I’ve gotten in relationships, I’ve lost   myself.  Today I’m very cautious to not act like a needy woman, but I feel my emotional walls are keeping me from finding love - can you help?" [VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a dating coach and matchmaker, I can assure you that your experience is shared

[VIDEO] I Know Right Away If I Want A Second Date. Is That Fair?

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like I know instantly if I want a second date, but people tell me I’m too quick to judge.  What do you think?  [VIDEO] How well do you really know your date? Jasbina explains the pitfalls of judging men too quickly.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up frequently: am i too

[VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date – 3 Ideas to Meet Dates!

  No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   Download a PDF version of 'How to Connect with a Man on a First Date - 6 Secrets from a Matchmaker.' _____ [VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date - 3 Ideas to Meet Dates! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I work long hours and find it impossible to meet people to date.  Any

[VIDEO] I Am Frustrated With Dating – 3 Ways To Take A Break

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like my frustration with the dating process is making me bitter.  Should I take a break to clear my head or just push through and hope I meet someone?   Jasbina Ahluwalia I hear your frustration, and as a dating coach and matchmaker can assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. Putting yourself out there again and again can be

[VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers – 3 Ideas To Figure This Out!

[VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers - 3 Ideas To Figure This Out! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How tightly should I hold on to my “deal-breakers”?  I don’t want to get burned but I also don’t want to turn away a great match for the wrong reasons.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, I want to 

[VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?

[VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time? In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?   Jasbina I'm sorry to hear of your frustration.  As a matchmaker and dating coach to people with limited free time, I can appreciate your concern.  I encourage you to continue being the kind of woman who recognizes the worth of her precious time. That