Elemental Love Style: What’s Yours? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Dr. Craig Martin, author of Elemental Love Styles: It’s a pleasure to have you. As a professional dating coach and matchmaker, I’m fascinated by insights and perspectives regarding relationships. I’ve enjoyed reading your book, Elemental Love Styles and would love to explore some of the insights shared in your book. Dr. Martin, you describe your book as a process of self-discovery divided into four parts.