Revolving Door of Dating

Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Marla Martenson, author of entitled Hearts on the Line: The Elusive Pursuit of Love in the City of Angels: What do you think has changed in dating, relationships and matchmaking over the years?



Marla Martenson

I think there are more and more dating sites.

The thing that has changed that’s not so good is that people feel like it’s a revolving door.

Revolving Door of Dating or Kid in a Candy Shop

It’s like a kid in a candy store sometimes. They think, “Next. Who else do you have?” There are so many singles out there on so many different sites, venues and ways to meet.

Even though they’re honing in to find one person, sometimes people won’t give one person a chance.

They will rule them out quickly because they think, “On to the next,” instead of saying, “Wait a minute. Was that one little thing really that important? Could I see them for a second date?”


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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Marla Martenson

The entire interview transcript is at: Marla Martenson Interview – Insights on Matchmaking & Dating

Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show

Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Hearts On The Line – Discussion with Marla Martenson

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