Rejection in Dating Doesn’t Exist
Jasbina Ahluwalia asks David Wygant – Author of the book Naked: Your book has another insightful chapter entitled There’s No Such Thing as Rejection. What do you mean by that?
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No Such Thing as Rejection in Dating
That’s my favorite. There is no such thing as rejection.
Rejection is a made-up emotion. That’s all it is. It’s a made-up emotion that doesn’t exist at all.
If you think about it, we’re not born with rejection.
Rejection in Dating: We Are Not Born This Way
When we slide down our mom’s womb and come out, the first thing the doctor tells the mother is, “Put your child on you so that you can have skin-to-skin contact.” We are not born with rejection.
When it comes to dating, people are really pathetic. Not to make them feel bad, but they are so pathetic. I’m going to explain why.
When someone is dating and you tell them to go out there and meet people, they will try something for the very first time. They will say, “It just didn’t work.”
Maybe a man will try to approach a woman. He will try three times. It just didn’t work.
A woman will try to change her behavior pattern and smile at guys. She’ll say, “It just didn’t work.”
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Rejection in Dating: Self-Made Thing
It’s something that I like to tell people all the time. Rejection is a self-made thing. When you go out there and try to survive in the business world, you need to deal with rejection.
You need to deal with people saying “no” to you.
The more successful you are, the more “no’s” you can take.
“Rejection” in Real-Life
When you’re an NFL football player, you stand in front of 72,000 people. You just threw an interception.
You don’t go to the sidelines and cry. You don’t say, “I am never doing this again, Coach. I’m never going back out there again.
I could never have that disgrace happen because 72,000 people saw me throw an interception.”
A baseball player is in the Hall of Fame because he gets three hits for every ten at bat. But when people go out and try to meet the opposite sex, they try something once, and like a bunch of pussies, they say, “Oh my God. No. I was rejected. I’m never doing this again. I’m just going to go back to my miserable existence.” They want something that’s going to work every time.
They are looking for a magic pill.
- Men are looking for the magic pill that will help them approach women.
- Women are looking for the magic pill that they can take that will get the right man to approach them.
It’s so ridiculous. If you want love, you better realize that it works on the same principle as everything else in life. Some will, some won’t. So what? Keep moving forward.
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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with David Wygant.
The entire interview transcript is at: David Wygant “Insights from a Dating Expert”
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