Needy Girlfriend: Don’t Be One!

Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: In your book, you advise readers that just about every annoying habit that women have when it comes to men can be broken down into three categories called the three evils. I’d like to identify each of the three categories and then have you explain each one.

The first category is needy. Tell us about that one.


Nancy Slotnick

This one probably needs no explanation. Men really don’t like women who are needy on dates or in general.

Needy Girlfriend or Craves Chivalry?

A lot of these women are very independent when it comes to their single life. If she’s going to a restaurant on her own, she knows how to take her coat off.

But if she needs him to do that on the date, that’s probably not the best example.

That leans toward chivalry, which is nice.

Needy Girlfriend Is a Turn Off

Needy is not good.

It’s like what we were talking about with phone calling. If you need the guy you’re dating to call you every single day just to prove something or text you every five minutes, it’s really overboard.


Tell Us:

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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Nancy Slotnick

The entire interview transcript is at: Nancy Slotnick Interview – Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less

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