Date Multiple People
Absolutely Date Multiple People
Empowered women should absolutely date more than one man at a time. Why put all your eggs in one basket?
There are a couple of reasons why it is important to date this way until someone becomes a clear front runner.
Date Multiple People: Work Towards One
Date Multiple People: Pressure
You don’t want to put pressure on someone early on.
Sometimes a woman gets super excited about a guy.
Maybe she just looked at his profile. She says, “Oh my God. Look at his profile. I can’t believe someone like this is online.”
She has no interest in anyone else. She goes 1,000 miles in the future in her head, based on a profile or a first date.
That puts a whole lot of pressure on him, you and a possible relationship that could be something special.
Date Multiple People: No Commitment
It’s well serving to have a couple of things going on at the same time with no commitment from anyone.
It also helps you hone in on what’s important to you.
Date Multiple People: Learn About Yourself
You will learn more about yourself and how the different guys make you feel.
Until you are at a point where you want to be mutually exclusive with someone, I think it is wise to date multiple people.
Date Multiple People: Understanding
I think it’s understood online that people are seeing other people.
Let’s say someone is pushing back on that at a time when you think it’s inappropriate.
Date Multiple People: Warning Signs
You haven’t even met a guy and he’s asking you, “Are you seeing other people?” That is a bit of a warning sign.
Why is he so controlling at this early stage when you haven’t even met him yet?
You want to see what’s behind that.
Any tips for balancing dating multiple people? Share with us in the comments section below.
The above is an excerpt from Jaki Sabourin’s interview with Jasbina Ahluwalia
The entire interview transcript is at: