[VIDEO] Is It Bad To Have A List Of Must-Haves In Men?

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question:   [VIDEO] Is It Bad To Have A List Of Must-Haves In Men? I know that lots of people caution against this, but I have a list of what I want in a man. Is this really a bad thing?   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, I can tell you that this is a

[VIDEO] Men Think I’m Controlling. How Do I Stop?

[VIDEO] Jasbina gives 3 tips on how to stay empowered, while not coming off as too controlling. In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I’m often criticized by men I date because I come across too controlling.  Is there a way to maintain my integrity as a powerful woman without being perceived as controlling?    Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up

[VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: In the past when I’ve gotten in relationships, I’ve lost   myself.  Today I’m very cautious to not act like a needy woman, but I feel my emotional walls are keeping me from finding love - can you help?" [VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a dating coach and matchmaker, I can assure you that your

[VIDEO] I Know Right Away If I Want A Second Date. Is That Fair?

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like I know instantly if I want a second date, but people tell me I’m too quick to judge.  What do you think?  [VIDEO] How well do you really know your date? Jasbina explains the pitfalls of judging men too quickly.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up frequently: am i too

[VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date – 3 Ideas to Meet Dates!

  No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   Download a PDF version of 'How to Connect with a Man on a First Date - 6 Secrets from a Matchmaker.' _____ [VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date - 3 Ideas to Meet Dates! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I work long hours and find it impossible to meet people to date.  Any

[VIDEO] I Am Frustrated With Dating – 3 Ways To Take A Break

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like my frustration with the dating process is making me bitter.  Should I take a break to clear my head or just push through and hope I meet someone?   Jasbina Ahluwalia I hear your frustration, and as a dating coach and matchmaker can assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. Putting yourself out there again and again can be

[VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers – 3 Ideas To Figure This Out!

  [VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers - 3 Ideas To Figure This Out! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How tightly should I hold on to my “deal-breakers”?  I don’t want to get burned but I also don’t want to turn away a great match for the wrong reasons.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men

[VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?

  [VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time? In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?   Jasbina I'm sorry to hear of your frustration.  As a matchmaker and dating coach to people with limited free time, I can appreciate your concern.  I encourage you to continue being the kind of woman who recognizes the worth

Dealing With Difficult Colleagues

Dealing With Difficult Colleagues Caller Three asks Dhru Beeharilal: That’s great. I have one last question. Another area that I think my company sometimes struggles with is giving advice on how to deal with difficult colleagues. It is essentially conflict resolution. My job requires that we be very creative and innovative with out-of-the-box thinking. That can create friction. People with think that their ideas are better than others.   Dealing With Difficult Colleagues:

Act Like a Boss: 4 Tips

Act Like a Boss: 4 Tips Jasbina Ahluwalia Here is our next question. Welcome, caller.   Caller Three asks Dhru Beeharilal: Thank you for your time. I just finished business school. I’m one of the younger guys in my group. I’m trying to learn how to exert influence without having the title or authority given to me. I want to build my credibility at the company and try to show that I have