Vulnerable in Dating Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: I think that’s great. I really appreciate you sharing your insights with us, Nancy. They’ve been really interesting. I’m wondering if you have any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with, whether it’s from your coaching practice or your insightful book. _____ Nancy Slotnick
Judgmental Dating Habits Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: Exactly. This is why your examples are really helpful. I’m sure that very few people walk around saying, “Yes, I think I’m controlling.” Then you can see how there might be misperception along those lines based on some actions or behaviors. The third category is judgmental. Again, I don’t think
Controlling of Communication Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: The second category is controlling. Do you have any examples? _____ Nancy Slotnick I like using the examples of communication around dating because that’s where a lot of your personality is translated to the other person. You may not even realize it. Controlling of Communication: Scheduling Here is an
Needy Girlfriend: Don’t Be One! Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: In your book, you advise readers that just about every annoying habit that women have when it comes to men can be broken down into three categories called the three evils. I’d like to identify each of the three categories and then have you explain each one. The
Lower Online Dating Expectations Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: In your book, you mention what you call the “one in ten rule.” Tell our listeners about that. _____ Nancy Slotnick Lower Online Dating Expectations: One out of Ten Let’s say that you’re doing online dating. You email ten different people. Probably only one of them is going
Dating Communication Rules Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: In your book, you explain another great analogy of a tennis game with respect to not being the one to call a guy until he has called first. Tell us about that. _____ Nancy Slotnick Dating Communication Rules: Volley Communication There is kind of a volley in communication. This goes
Dating A Part-Time Job? Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: You spoke of taking action and putting in the work. In your book, you advise readers to devote 15 hours a week to their search. Tell us about that and how you got to that number. _____ Nancy Slotnick Dating A Part-Time Job That Requires Time It’s almost like
Actively Find a Partner Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Nancy Slotnick, author of Turn Your Cablight On: Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less: I found a statement you made in your book particularly compelling. I’d love to share it with our listeners and then have you expand. You state in your book, “Let me guess. You’ve been told countless times that ‘It always happens when you’re not looking.’ You hear stories about
Nancy Slotnick Interview - Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less “Get Your Dream Man in Six Months or Less” Jasbina Ahluwalia interviews Nancy Slotnick A few topics Nancy Slotnick addresses in this interview are: (3:12) Available Ladies: Drop Hints (4:36) Actively Find a Partner (6:12) Dating A Part-Time Job? (8:17) Dating Communication Rules (10:19) Lower Online Dating Expectations (13:37) Don’t Be a Needy Girlfriend! (15:18) Controlling of Communication
