5 Reasons Why You Don’t Have Your Ideal Relationship

5 Reasons Why You Don’t Have Your Ideal Relationship Do you find yourself fighting with your partner often or wondering why you don’t feel satisfied in your relationship? Have  you tried to think of everything possible to help your partner change so that you can have the relationship that you want but you still don’t have it? The answer may not be with your partner but with you. While unhealthy conflict is due

Take Better Care of Yourself So You Can Better Care For Others

Take Better Care of Yourself So You Can Better Care For Others South Asian culture is a collectivistic culture, meaning that individual needs and wants are pushed aside for the benefit of the whole group. Generally, people who are raised in a collectivistic culture are taught that it is best to sacrifice oneself if that means the group as a whole will be happier. Overall, it is emphasized that others are often more

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues – What Do I Do?

My Girlfriend Has Serious Trust Issues - What Do I Do? Question I’m dating a woman who’s really great, except for the fact that she’s constantly questioning me whenever we spend any time apart. To give you an example, when I go out with friends, she has to know where I’m going, when I’m going to be back, and exactly who else will be there.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can

I Will Call You – What A Guy Really Means

I Will Call You – What A Guy Really Means Dating is no easy feat.  We all have a tree in our backyard that we have stopped to admire, and then proceed to bang our head on after a bad date. I realize it can be very frustrating for you gals to decipher what we guys are saying during the dating process.   No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   What

I Am Not Looking To Get Married Now – What A Guy Really Means

I Am Not Looking To Get Married Now – What A Guy Really Means Dating is no easy feat.  We all have a tree in our backyard that we have stopped to admire, and then proceed to bang our head on after a bad date. I realize it can be very frustrating for you gals to decipher what we guys are saying during the dating process.   No TIME to Find Someone? We

Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix?

Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix? Question From your experience as a professional dating coach and matchmaker "Do Different Political Views And Romance Mix?" Do you think long-term relationships are really feasible between people with different political views, for example, a Democrat and a Republican? I’m curious: does this issue ever come up when dealing with your clients? Or is it not really on people’s radars? [More from Jasbina] ---> [VIDEO] Intersections

Online Dating – To Upload A Picture Or Not?

Online Dating - To Upload A Picture Or Not? Question I’m ready to put some real effort into my search for a partner, and I’ve decided to try online dating. I’m uncomfortable putting my picture up online but have been told that not doing so is a mistake. What do you think? _____ [More from Jasbina] ---> [VIDEO] Intersections Match by Jasbina - From The Founder ---> [VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are

East Meets West: Mindset

East Meets West: Mindset Jaki Sabourin asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: When you say, “Blending the East and the West,” can you give me that in a nutshell? What do you mean by that? _____   Jasbina Ahluwalia East Meets West: Immigration When my parents immigrated from abroad, they came with the idea of, “There are great things about our homeland, India. There are great things about the US, which is why we’re gravitating towards

Arranged Marriage Culture

Arranged Marriage Culture Jaki Sabourin asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: I’ve been really excited about this interview because I married my husband and we met online. I’m not going to say anything more about that because you’re the expert here. I know the audience really wants to hear from you, and all about the things you’re going to share and tips that you’re going to provide. _____   Before we dive in, I want to

Guidelines for Dating Men Who Divorced

Guidelines for Dating Men Who Divorced Jasbina Ahluwalia discusses with Christie Hartman, author of Changing Your Game: A Man’s Guide to Success with WomenFind The Love of Your Life Online: Your book discusses five guidelines for dating divorced men. Please share these five guidelines with our listeners for navigating your way when you’re dating a divorced man. _____   Dr. Christie Hartman There are a few different ones. First, try to find out his situation. Every