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Take Charge of Love Life
Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Cija Black, author of in Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating: It was from your personal experiences. I can see that it runs throughout your book, which is excellent.
In your book, you mention taking charge of your love life.
What are your thoughts in terms of how one can do that?
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Cija Black
Take Charge of Love Life: You Can
I think the first piece is people being aware that they can. I think society says this to us.
You get sucked into the undertow of love as opposed to realizing that you have some control over that.
Take Charge of Love Life: Process
You can be part of the process of deciding what you want in a relationship and in a partner, not just letting the fates drop it on you.
It’s not to say that there isn’t some magic involved in it. But I think that you can direct the path a little bit more than people give themselves credit for.
Take Charge of Love Life: Focus
That really helps them to set that stage for thinking, “What do I want? What is my focus?”
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Tell Us:
Take charge of love life and have the relationship you want! Tell us if you used this philosophy and found your special someone in the comments section below.
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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Cija Black
The entire interview transcript is at: Cija Black Interview – Modern Love: The Grownup’s Guide to Relationships & Online Dating
Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show
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