Control Timing in Life Jasbina Ahluwalia asks Debi Berndt, author of Let Love In: Yes, it’s that fine-tuning. Listening and seeing how things pan out is important. I really appreciate you sharing your insights with us, Debi. They’ve been really interesting. I’m wondering if you have any last thought or take-home message that you’d like to leave our listeners with. _____ Debi Berndt A lot of people talk about timing and fate.