3 Online Dating Success Tips
Men and women are meeting lots of people online and sometimes finding them completely disappointing. How can a woman tell if she’s being what you call “too picky?” What are some signs of that?
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3 Online Dating Success Tips are:
Set yourself up to attract the kind of person you want. If you are not setting up your online materials correctly, you’re not going to get the kind of soulmate you want.
You’re going to get what I call “duds.” They are unworkable dudes.
- You want your photo to be a certain way.
- Even your screen name is important.
- Your headline is important.
Of course, as a woman, your photo is unbelievably important. Men are 14 to 15 times more likely to look at a profile that has a good photo.
Write your profile in a way that attracts the kind of person that you want. In the book, I show you how to write different types of profiles.
- If you want a more successful guy, here is what you can write.
- If you want a more religious guy, here’s what you can write.
- If you want a more spiritual, down-to-earth guy, here’s what you can write.
In general, I talk about how to be inviting in your profile to men. They’re scared. They can be very shy.
If you’re meeting a lot of duds:
- You’re probably not setting yourself up for success there.
- You’re setting yourself up to be disappointed.
- You’re setting yourself up for a certain kind of bitterness and giving up.
That does not need to happen. It’s like riding a bike.
There are certain rules about how to ride the bike. If you don’t read the rules, you’re going to be frustrated about making that bike go. You will say, “I can’t ride a bike.”
There are very simple things that you can do similarly in online dating that make the bike go.
What do you think?
What are some ‘Online Dating Success Tips’ from your experience? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner.
The entire interview transcript is at: Diana Kirschner Interview: Online Dating Strategies
Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio: Find Your Soulmate Online – In Six Simple Steps: Diana Kirschner
Listen to the entire interview on iTunes