3 Online Dating Red Flags

Jasbina asks Dr. Diana Kirschner – In your book Find Your Soulmate Online in Six Simple Steps, you discuss some online dating red flags to watch out for. What are some online dating red flags?

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Dr. Diana Kirschner

3 Online Dating Red Flags are: 

  1. The person often lives outside the country.
  2. He or she appears to be too wonderful.
  3. They suddenly have their sob story.

Elaborating further on the points above:

1) The person often lives outside the country

A first red flag is that the person often lives outside the country. This doesn’t necessarily mean that the person is a con man or woman. Often, these rings operate abroad.

Criminals have really gotten into online dating. It’s amazing. They really know what they’re doing. However, you can spot them coming a mile away. It’s very simple. You just block them.

2) He or she appears to be too wonderful.

Number two is that he or she appears to be too wonderful.

They’re rich. They’re self-employed. They have a Master’s degree. They love you madly immediately. They write you poetry.

I’ve actually seen some of the stuff that they write because it’s passed to me from my love mentors. They say, “What do you think about this?” I say, “No.” These people know how to write and make it sound like they are an innocent person.

3) They suddenly have their sob story.

The really big red flag is when they suddenly have their sob story.

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There is a family friend in need of help who had an accident. They don’t have access to their cash because they’re on an assignment consulting for a major corporation. The check is coming next week and they need the money.

Of course, they ask for the money or your financial information. Once you’re alert to that, you can feel it coming. They will engage your heartstrings. They know how to do that. You can feel it coming.

All you do is block them. That’s it. Then you’re done.

 

Jasbina Ahluwalia

Like you said, you block them and move on.

 

Dr. Diana Kirschner

You feel like you can’t believe it. You don’t want to believe it. Often, if they’ve done their job really well, they have part of your heart.

I’ve had to talk women down from the ledge. That’s why you want to see these red flags and get out quickly.

These people do know how to engage your heart.

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What would you add?

What are some of the online dating red flags you have come across? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

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The above is an excerpt from Jasbina’s interview with Dr. Diana Kirschner.

The entire interview transcript is at: Diana Kirschner Interview – Online Dating Strategies

Listen to the entire interview on: Intersections Match Talk Radio – Jasbina’s Lifestyle Show

Listen to the entire interview on Blog Talk Radio:  Find Your Soulmate Online – In Six Simple Steps: Diana Kirschner

Listen to the entire interview on iTunes

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