Because Of A Abusive Relationship, I Cannot Keep A Guy Around – What Should I Do?

QUESTION

I am having trouble finding the right person for me.

I have been in an abusive relationship once before and that has taken over my life. I don’t know whether I have fully recovered from that, but whenever a guy comes in my life, I become so alarmed, thinking and acting like all men are the same.

Due to this, I can never keep a guy around. What should I do?

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ANSWER

Let me start by thanking you for your thoughtful question. Unfortunately, there are many other people who face similar issues. By having the courage to ask this question, you may be helping others as well.

No woman ever deserves to be in an abusive relationship of any sort — ever! From what you say, you may want to seriously consider consulting a therapist to help you navigate your recovery.

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One starting point for a referral to such a professional is the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). You will reach a live person at that number 24 hours a day, and he or she can offer you referrals to licensed professionals in your state to aid you in your recovery.

I sincerely hope you get the help you need to live the life you want.

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