6 Relationship Resolutions Every Collegiette™ Could Stand to Make
Monday, December 27, 2010
By Ally Karsyn

A year in review: your love life, circa 2010. Whether you experienced a dating dry spell, a string of casual dates that didn’t go anywhere or a continued less than ideal long-term relationship, you know there’s room for improvement. So whether you’re single, dating, or in a relationship, you can take something away from each of these resolutions to revive your love life in the New Year.


Love the new you (and the old you too)

As founder and president of a successful matchmaking service called Intersections Match, Jasbina Ahluwalia knows a thing or two about finding love. But as always, it starts with you. She said, “If you don’t love yourself, you can’t expect anyone else to either.” So how do you go about forming a fabulous life? Fortunately for you, Ahluwalia gave a few ideas for what you can do to love yourself and build self-esteem.

Eating healthy and finding a physical activity you enjoy were at the top of her list. Between cooking and exercise, you have quite the array of options and activities. If you’re looking to cook, Cheap Healthy Good is a delightful blog that features frugally nutritious recipes from all different kinds of cuisines including Thai, Indian and Italian. For exercise, think about taking yoga, Zumba or dance classes. Who said exercise can’t be fun?

Whether you’re single or dating, it’s always important to have your own hobbies and interests, essentially your own life. That way you won’t be desperately seeking someone to complete you; it’s easier to get out of a bad relationship because you won’t be left with nothing; and if you do find someone worthwhile, he will only enrich what you already have. So resolve to focus on YOU!