[VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: In the past when I’ve gotten in relationships, I’ve lost   myself.  Today I’m very cautious to not act like a needy woman, but I feel my emotional walls are keeping me from finding love - can you help?" [VIDEO] Help! My Emotional Walls Are Keeping Me From Finding Love   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a dating coach and matchmaker, I can assure you that your experience is shared

[VIDEO] I Know Right Away If I Want A Second Date. Is That Fair?

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like I know instantly if I want a second date, but people tell me I’m too quick to judge.  What do you think?  [VIDEO] How well do you really know your date? Jasbina explains the pitfalls of judging men too quickly.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, this question comes up frequently: am i too

[VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date – 3 Ideas to Meet Dates!

  No TIME to Find Someone? We can HELP!   Download a PDF version of 'How to Connect with a Man on a First Date - 6 Secrets from a Matchmaker.' _____ [VIDEO] I Work Long Hours And Find It Impossible To Meet People To Date - 3 Ideas to Meet Dates! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I work long hours and find it impossible to meet people to date.  Any

[VIDEO] I Am Frustrated With Dating – 3 Ways To Take A Break

In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: I feel like my frustration with the dating process is making me bitter.  Should I take a break to clear my head or just push through and hope I meet someone?   Jasbina Ahluwalia I hear your frustration, and as a dating coach and matchmaker can assure you that you are not alone in feeling this way. Putting yourself out there again and again can be

[VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers – 3 Ideas To Figure This Out!

[VIDEO] How Tightly Should I Hold On To My Deal Breakers - 3 Ideas To Figure This Out! In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How tightly should I hold on to my “deal-breakers”?  I don’t want to get burned but I also don’t want to turn away a great match for the wrong reasons.   Jasbina Ahluwalia As a matchmaker and dating coach to highly selective men and women, I want to 

[VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?

[VIDEO] How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time? In this video, Jasbina addresses the question: How Do I Tell If A Guy Is Worth My Time?   Jasbina I'm sorry to hear of your frustration.  As a matchmaker and dating coach to people with limited free time, I can appreciate your concern.  I encourage you to continue being the kind of woman who recognizes the worth of her precious time. That

Electricity Attraction in Relationships

Electricity Attraction in Relationships Kristina Lynn asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: I think that’s a great point. I think this next question is a great one for you, Jasbina. This gal says, “Do I need to feel that energy with someone to know that he’s the one? I’ve always chosen my past partners based on the electricity between us. It’s not necessarily sexual, but that energy that you feel when you’re connected with someone. I

Redefining Romance in Relationships

Redefining Romance in Relationships Denise Levy asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: We have some questions coming in. There is one thing I wanted to go back to. Jasbina, you were talking about defining romance. A lot of times, what we see in today’s society is that romance is taken from movies and the media. We blame Disney for our upsets. They set us up to believe in Prince Charming. I wanted to touch on that

Overconfidence on First Date

Overconfidence on First Date Kristina Lynn asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: Jasbina, I’m so happy that I am jumping up and down right now at something that you said. It’s okay for women to talk about their accomplishments and their goals. They shouldn’t hide that professional part of themselves. It makes me so happy that you said that. I think there is a pool of dating experts out there in the world that advise women

Attracting The Right Partner: 2 Tips

Attracting The Right Partner: 2 Tips Kristina Lynn asks Jasbina Ahluwalia: One of the things that I see are lots of power struggles and confusion. I am thrilled that you would like to delve into this topic. We have people who are on the edge of their seat saying, “Tell me your insights, please.” _____   Jasbina Ahluwalia Attracting The Right Partner: Empowerment Empowerment is a mindset that I really internalize. Part of